If she is not cold towards you and you have already done no contact, then you can stay in touch with her. Then we moved in together a few months later.
She clearly posted this message for her ex to see. Kept her on hold for two years and now she dumped me the day I declared. I guess I still need to work on my emotions. Thanks Ryan, I will follow what you have instructed. Now I really don't know what is going on because I'm kind of starting to not care. If you really want to know for certain, the only way is to actually ask her about it. So I drove Five hours out of my way to find out what was happening and as it turns out she has found herself a new guy, who just "kinda showed up", and that she doesn't want to talk to me or even be my Friend, because she doesn't want to hurt us anymore than what she has.