He told me is wife got deployed but they are separated and he filed for divorce.
Maybe i m going crazy He also said I'm not the first "girlfriend" he had; there were two other women before me. First he said he will leave her in 5 years once his kids go to Uni. Your relationship will change if he divorces his wife for you.
All in all - it just works for me. The married guy says, "Don't cheat on me.
He has 2 kids with his wife and they have been married 17 years. This is not a race. As long as you can live with it and know what's real. I know it's hard but it NOT impossible. For instance, you may want to consider setting some of the following limits: Right now I am at his apartment all alone while he says he is 'working'. Then we kissed and kept doing it and after a month I invited him to my place.