I mean, not immediately. Shrug it off, make your excuses, and go hang out with people who treat you with value and respect. That's called real romance, baby.
You can tell so much about a person by how they treat waiters and waitresses. This isn't as ominous a red flag as some of the others in the list, but it's something to watch out for. Trying to "neg" you For the uninitiated, a neg is a put-down designed to make the woman on the receiving end more likely to want to seek the attention and validation of the person doing the negging. Drinking way too much First dates can be scary, so I understand the urge to take the edge off with a drink. It's the adult version of pulling your hair and pushing you down in the playground. When someone uses that time to regress, to make comparisons, to talk shit about some old flame