I am so you. There will be bars, and strip clubs, and clubs. But the pier may see on.
Never being able to plan anything definitively or getting the non-refundable price on tickets, is tiresome. My husband once called me from a strip club to give my info to a stripper getting married, as I am a photographer. Manning the Children Solo: The massive weighted expectation on me to be everything while he is gone. There will be bars, and strip clubs, and clubs.